I spent the day yesterday at a fantastic lighting workshop in LA taught by Joe McNally. If you haven’t heard of him you definitely need to go check out his site. I will post tomorrow about how great it was to just sit and learn from one of the greats, but the highlight of my day came after the workshop. A bunch of us decided to go to Philippes for french dip and wait out the traffic.
As we were sitting there eating a woman walked past headed to the restroom. She had on this wonderful hat and had such a great face. I thought about asking her for a photograph, but then told myself how dumb I would sound. I mean, what an embarrassing thing to do, asking a complete stranger to take their picture. I sat there for a couple of minutes debating and then, without thinking too much more about it, jumped up, camera in hand, and went into the bathroom.
She was just washing her hands. I told her how beautiful I thought her hat was. She said, “Thank you so much! I’ve been out celebrating a special occasion today and decided to get dressed up. It’s my birthday.” I wished her a happy birthday and told her she looked so pretty. As she had her hand on the doorknob ready to walk out I said, “Would you mind if I took your picture?” She didn’t even hesitate. “Really? Of course!”
I had her stand against the wall in the restroom and fired off a couple of shots. She had the best smile on her face. She asked if I would send her a copy and gave me her address. I thanked her and she said, “No, thank you! You made my day!” She definitely made mine. Taking someone’s photo really does make a difference. It’s all about noticing people and just making them feel beautiful even if it’s just for a few minutes. It was a personal mini Help-Portrait project. I cannot wait for December 12 for the real thing.
Beauty is an experience, nothing else. It is not a fixed pattern or an arrangement of features. It is something felt, a glow or a communicated sense of fineness. What ails us is that our sense of beauty is so bruised and blunted, we miss all the best.
~ D. H. Lawrence
Sunday was the inaugural Faded & Blurred studio shoot… although the only thing we really used the studio for was to have the model change clothes. We had a beautiful model, Anna Easteden, come for the afternoon. I didn’t take too many pictures. Most of the time it was just watching and learning from Frank Wise. I’ll post a couple of my favorites here…
It has been a very busy couple of days and I’ve taken a lot of photos. It’s going to take me awhile to go through all of them, but I wanted to post a couple tonight of senior portraits I took. I think they turned out great. It helped to have a beautiful model!
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
~ Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles,” 1992
